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Here’s a scary fact for you: the average family spends around $12,000 on their newborn in the first year of their life. hat money doesn’t even cover the cost of medical bills, which can add the same again on top. This figure only covers furniture, diapers, formula (for those who use it), clothes – so many clothes – and then childcare for those requiring it when they return to work. For some, it can be a huge shock to the system, especially if both parents were working before the pregnancy. It requires some careful budgeting and some smart shopping, but it is possible to prepare for the arrival of a newborn without breaking the bank.
Care for your health
The health of mom while she goes through the stages of pregnancy is of fundamental importance to the healthy development of the baby. But medical bills can really start to add up. The average, straightforward birth can cost around $3,500, with caesareans and other more complicated births coming in around $12,500. When other complications occur during the pregnancy, the bills can really start to rack up. Ensuring you have a great insurance policy is helpful. Don’t be tempted to choose it on price alone – it’s essential that it covers you and your baby throughout pregnancy, as well as any connected complications. If you can prioritize your wellbeing by eating healthily, keeping active, and trying to keep stress to a minimum, you can significantly reduce the likelihood of complications.
Prioritize needs over wants
When the pregnancy test comes back positive, it’s so tempting to start fantasizing about all the cute little booties and pretty crib cushions. Frankly, unless you’re rolling in cash, those things probably come under the umbrella of luxury rather than necessity. It’s easy to be dragged into buying luxuries which are, unfortunately, completely unnecessary. The baby market is huge, and many objects are marketed as necessities when they’re really not. Your baby needs to be safe, comfortable, well fed, and entertained, but outside of that, everything is a luxury item. Needs include a breast pump, crib or bassinet, bottles for formula, diapers, clothing, burp cloths and more. A crib bumper and cushions, sling, changing table, and other similar objects might seem like necessities, but it’s completely possible to live without them, or improvise with household objects for a cheaper alternative.
Speak to your midwife about costs
If you don’t have medical insurance, don’t fret, there is actually a way to cut the medical bills. Head into the hospital before the birth and speak to the labor and delivery team there. They will be able to give you a list of the items and services which new mothers are usually billed for, but actually, there are plenty of things on your list that are optional. Opting out of services which you don’t need means a smaller bill, which is a bit of a blessing.
Don’t be afraid to rely on second-hand items
Newborn babies grow at a ridiculous rate. You might buy the cutest babygrows or little boots, but there is a fairly significant likelihood that they’ll only fit them for a couple of months, making their cost per wear ridiculously high. There are women the world over facing the same frustration. Which means the market is flooded with barely-worn baby clothes, which can either go in a box in the attic for an indeterminate period of time, go to landfill, or can be passed on to other expectant mothers who don’t want to, or can’t, pay full price for an entire wardrobe for their new baby. You might be fortunate enough to know other moms who will happily donate you their toddler’s old clothes, but if not there are still plenty of options. Ebay is full of bulk lots of baby clothes from moms whose babies have outgrown them. Thrift stores and Goodwill are also a treasure trove, and a quick wash when you get them home will see the clothing as good as new, for a fraction of the price.
Choose unisex styles
Here is some serious forward planning for you: when you buy baby clothes, choose unisex colors and styles so you can hand them down to any future children, or even friend’s kids. Imagine spending loads on pretty pink dresses for your daughter, only to have to buy a whole new set in a few years when your body decides to give you a son. Greens, yellows, grays and whites are perfect for avoiding this potential frustration, and you’ll also be more likely to be able to sell them on when your baby has outgrown them, if that’s what you’d prefer to do.
Shop around
Some items are inevitable. A crib or bassinet, for example, is a must buy. The temptation is to go to one store and grab every item in one day, purely for expedience. Shopping around could save you some serious cash. Car seats are one item which you can’t avoid, but the price can range from anywhere between $100 to $1000. Spend some time reading some reviews of best selling seats here, and make a decision based on your budget, not just on efficiency. Use reviews of products to determine the best value for money – obviously, some more low-end products won’t have high safety ratings, or might break faster than you’d like. It’s about finding a balance, and shopping around is by far the best way to do that.
Make a wish list for your baby shower
If nobody is planning you a baby shower, ask your sisters, mom, or best friends to make it happen. Not only is it a great time to get advice from other moms, but it’s also amazing for collecting a few gifts too. People won’t think you’re cheeky if you create a wish list for the gifts you still require, and it lessens the likelihood of repeat gifts, which only need returning. Items such as teething rings, breast pumps, burp clothes, and other non-clothing are the best things to ask for. It is far easier to source clothing yourself, without the worry of having too much or too little.
Buy baby clothes as you go
Babies don’t grow at the same rate right up to adulthood; they go through growth spurts which can see them outgrowing their clothes overnight. Buying clothes as you go, rather than bulk buying clothes in varying sizes before their birth, means you won’t accidentally overbuy on a certain size. It enables you to make decisions relevant to their rate of growth, rather than based on assumptions, and could save you a significant amount of money.
Bulk buy diapers
Other than clothes and, in some cases formula, diapers are one of the biggest costs of having a newborn. Unless you plan to use cloth diapers, one of the best ways to keep costs down is by keeping diaper costs low. Make the most of discount sales to stock out, and keep an eye out for coupons and money off vouchers to bag yourself a bargain. Bulk buying them from Costco or similar stores is one of the best ways, as long as you have room to store them.
Collect free formula samples
Coupons and free samples are a lifesaver, if you can take full advantage. Check out local newspapers, and sign up for online newsletters with milk formula companies to receive free samples. Even if you’re breastfeeding, having some formula options available will give you a whole lot more freedom.
Keeping costs low when you’re planning for the birth of your baby can seem impossible, but it really isn’t. Take advantage of coupons and samples, shop around, and avoid feeling pressured into buying unnecessary products, and you’ll see costs fall significantly.